auxiliary output problem with alarm brain

I have installed a simple alarm system on an enclosed cargo trailer.  1 aux actuates a relay for outside lights, 1 aux actuates a 2nd outside light circuit.  when i turn off the inside toggle switch it automaticaly turns on both aux outputs.  it is not an every time occurance.  i believe this might be a diode, resistor problem on the grounds but im not sure.  everything works perfect and all the circuits are isolated by relays, i have 14 different relays installed.  I think the latching relays that im using are super sensitive and the ground pulse from the disengaging relays sets them off.  what do you guys think.