audi style turn signals

I tried searching but didn't seem to find any type of wiring diagram. I wanted to do the Audi Style turn signals that when the turn signal come on the daytime running lights turn off and don't come back on till the turn signal turns off completely. I thought about doing this with a relay. Like so.. post 85+ from turn signal post 86- Ground post 30+ constant 12v post 87a+ to daytime running lights and I wanted to put a capacitor between 85 and 86 to keep the daytime running lights off while the turn signal is on. Can anyone tell me what kind of capacitor I would need or if something like this would even work. Or if someone has a better idea on how I can make this work. Thanks

sorry forgot to mention this is for a 2006 Nissan Pathfinder