92 Mustang keyless

ok i read the other post about the 92 and it helped some but i thought i'd run my problems by you guys and see what u can tell me.  i have my relays hooked up to the pink / YELLOW  and pink/green  power to 87 86 on one relay 87 85 on the other i think i may have had 87a and 30 wires wrong because i was blowing a fuse every time i hooked it up so i switched them now i don't blow a fuse but locks aren't working with car switch or keyless. i tryed hooking up the relays in the door after the switch didn't work but now i'm wondering if i toasted the relays, how hard is it to blow a relay?  30 amp relays from the auto parts store.  also wouldn't the door switch work without the alarm wires hooked to the relay

heres what how i have the relays hooked up now and not working

pink / YELLOW to lock relay 87a 30 and 87 85 to power and 86 to alarm

pink/green to unlock relay 87a 30 and 87 86 to power and 85 to alarm

hope u can help