starter kill switch?

I am looking to install a starter kill switch on my car. I have a relay with the 5 pin setup and a toggle switch that has 2 wires out the back. on the switch, One of those wires is labeled accessory while the other is labeled power. Can someone help with wiring this switch to the relay? Where do I connect the starter and ignition wires? I am electronically challenged.

SPDT Relay

1 or 2 amp Diode across PIN 86 & PIN 85 with stripe facing PIN 86

Cut Starter wire in half:

PIN 86 & 30  = Ignition switch half of cut wire

PIN 87a  = Starter side of cut wirePIN 85 = Negative Output from Alarm while Armed or toggle switch and ground other side of toggle switch

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Here is what I have so far: pin 87 is the constant 12v. pin 86 is going power(+) to the toggle switch. where does the accessory wire from the back of the switch go? pin 30 goes to what i am trying to power (starter or wire past this to fuel pump)?

If U are installing Relay for Starter Kill...............

Use above hook up.........

Cut Starter wire in half:

PIN 86 & 30  = Ignition switch half of cut wire

PIN 87a  = Starter side of cut wirePIN 85 = Negative Output from Alarm while Armed or toggle switch and ground other side of toggle switch

MO

Don't Learn from Others Mistakes

You Might Be the One That Knows.