Well, speaking as a rallyer myself... (Admittedly many years ago, but let's just say that the driving
methodology is still very present - I still scare the wits out of my girlfriend of 20 (er, ...23) years - and that's just from my "non-reaction" to normal traffic, and my clearances to passing passenger-side vehicles.)
My main suggestion would be NOT to have a sequential switch.
You want big, strong, and simple switches.
You don't want to be fumbling for switches, or counting pushes, or cycling again because that last bump caused an unintended push.
(Oh - and move floor-mounted dip switched to the column, but maybe that is irrelevant these days. In 2001 I fitted a later hi-low-flash steering column switch to my "1 year old" 1965 ute...)
Back then we were limited to a max of 4 headlights so I removed my inner 2 standards and added SuperOcars. I included a switch to turn
off the outer highbeams because running 400W of lighting on a 25A alternator led to flatteries (flat battery).
Later I enabled the outer lows to remain on even when on high. I found that I lacked good lighting just in front of me even though I could see what was 1km to 1 mile ahead. (And what do modern cars do? LOL! But the arguments I once had - authorities argued it was illegal, but I proved them wrong. (Yet again.)) How did kangaroos get sunburnt during the night? My car!
But I am currently going thru a similar situation to you - essentially 6 bulbs where the outers are hi/lo H4, but are normally run as low even when on
hibeam (as per many modern cars - eg, dedicated low), plus inner spots.
I want to select between flashing the outer H4 high's for friendly fire (around town and for truck signalling) but otherwise the inner spots for angry situations (or maybe all 6 bulbs!). Being the nice guy that I am (until provoked), I reckon my inner pencil-beam spots (100W or 130W) are too powerful for mere mortals.
Similarly for normal hi/lo selection - akin to a city or country mode of lighting.
Anyhow, I hadn't considered sequential switching because - even in normal
civilian driving mode - I reckon I want instantaneous selection. I'll probably use momentary push buttons that latch the appropriate combination.
Reaction speed and switch space as well as location are important considerations. With that comes the ease of selection - I don't like having to look at my switches to find them - I want eyes on the road.
Rather than outline possibilities, I'll ask you if you are space limited or have several options available. (Besides, I must get to other pressing issues...)
But if I may add two thoughts:
1. Big rally type long toggle switches were popular, but I reckon they break to easily (eg, fast hits whilst competing), and IMO they were electrically too big (since all lights should be through relay anyhow, hence making many more switches suitable). And toggle switches are hazardous enough when moving around the cabin.
2. An oil-pressure & engine kill system: (This also relates greatly to fools that control electric oil pumps from oil-pressure switches!!)
Some use lack of oil pressure to kill the fuel pump. This is a totally wrong philosophy. We already have the best system - the (no) oil pressure light comes on and the driver decides if they want to kill the engine midway around a corner or in front of an approaching locomotive. That's not mentioning the damage that can be done to injectors and the engine by leaning out the fuel mixture...
As an automated system, then a warning light that triggers a timer (maybe 3 seconds?) to give the driver a chance to override the impending engine kill.
I envisaged 2 big lit push-buttons (~1" square) - one green, one red...
The red kills the ignition. It is lit (and flashes, maybe buzzes) if the oil-pressure light comes on. Hitting it kills the engine imediately.
The green is an override. It is also lit if the oil-pressure light comes on or red is flashing.
Both or either can normally be lit as well, maybe dimly when not activated (by lack of oil pressure etc).
If the green is NOT hit within say 3 seconds of the oil-pressure red flashing, the engine kill operates.
Though red can be a universal engine kill, the green can be an automated engine-kill defeat/override, or an engine start if the engine is not running.
The above is relatively versatile & simple - the delay timer being the most complex.
Engine-run sensing is done via the alternator's charge light circuit (which is what controls electric fuel pumps - NOT oil-pressure switches!) but can also be done via air-flaps on EFIs, or spark-sensing circuits (eg, the common Bosch EFI's spark-sensing fuel-pump relay).
Fuel pumps are supposed to stop as soon as the engine is stopped - not AFTER some oil-pressure drop delay. Nor is killing fuel an appropriate way to save an engine (eg, in case of no oil pressure) - that can cause major engine damage until it finally stops; that should be an ignition-kill circuit (usually by shorting the ignition sensor else points or ignitor output to GND).
In simple terms, engine stall needs a instant fuel-pump kill. Engine protection needs an an instant engine kill. Low oil pressure either kills the engine (not recommended!) or advises the driver. Killing fuel to stop a gasoline engine is NOT recommended.
Whilst that 2nd
thought above is detailed, I provided it mainly as an example of how switches and their lighting can interact, and also to prevent you following the same universally crap advice that others with competition cars seem so bent on pursuing.
And it's the above switch and their lighting method I'm considering for my lo-spot, lo-hi, lo-hi-spot etc combinations but using small "tactile" 50mA PCB mounting switches (~10mm round).
[FYI - Other things are involved too, like the horn activating headlights, dimmers for all headlights (to reduce inconsiderate or "illegal" 130W or 100W bulbs to lower intensities), dimmable halogen park lights...]
Your thoughts? (Or your confusion...?)