hid on a pontiac torrent

Hi guys,

I'm in the process of installing an HID conversion kit on my 05 Pontiac Torrent. I'm having trouble figuring out the wiring since the kit only has instructions on how to connect the bulb to the ballast and how to replace the bulbs. I'm running the H13 light buld conversion. There is an additional harness that connects to a relay switch that have no clue how to connect to the bulbs and ballast. I know some connections go to the positive battery terminal and negative. There is also a connection the can easily plug into the ballast, but if I connect it to the ballast I cant connect one end of the buld. Can someone please direct me on this install. I try looking for instructions on the web, but no luck. If there is any topic already created here please direct me to it. Your help is appreciated.

Thank you.