hid relay wireing in a dakota

hi i have a plug and play hid conversion kit that i bought off ebay and my problem is that my truck has daytime running lights that i cant turn off. well i can turn them off but the only way i can do that is by going to the dealer and getting them to reprogram the ctm. the only way i can get my hids to ignight is by putting my ebrake on then turning my lights on. my question is i have a 2002 dodge dakota quad cab and i want to know how to setup relays for each ballast basically i wanna get the power for the lights directly from the battery to each relay and then from there to the ballast my stock bulb type is 9007 can you please help me thanks1998 VW GTI VR6 5 Speed manual, JVC kd-nx5000 plus 7 inch indash screen optima batteries Eclipse 7122 mono sub amp which im still having serious problems with, and a 12 inch Orion sub

Are the daytimes a different bulb, I am NOT familier with this rig (at least the headlights) Or are they the same bulb as the headlights?

they are the same bulb1998 VW GTI VR6 5 Speed manual, JVC kd-nx5000 plus 7 inch indash screen optima batteries Eclipse 7122 mono sub amp which im still having serious problems with, and a 12 inch Orion sub