toyota corona/caldina folding mirrors

Hi! I've bought those mirrors as used and the seller wasn't sure if they are originally for 1992-1997 Corona or Caldina. I'm trying to make them work on 1996 Toyota Carina E. I have the mirrors, the switch and the mirror relay. I can make the windows tilt left/right and up/down. Problem is that I cant figure out the correct wiring between the mirrors and the relay. When I push the retract button the mirrors will keep the motor running even if they've reached the close-position and nothing happens when I push the switch again. I tried other wiring and then the mirrors keep opening the same way as closing(the motor just keeps running). There might be only two wires in the wrong position but it seems hard to find out which ones. The relay has 12pin connector with 11 wires. Relay's part number is 87989-12011. Is it easy to make similar relay by myself, so when I press and release the button the mirrors will close and open so that i don't have to keep pressing the button until it reaches the correct position on closing and opening? Here is the drawing from wireside of the connector. When I put +12V to that pin8 I get +12V out from those four pins.

Hey Howie.... you there?

Or Shazam, has anybody seen him around? I saw him a while ago helping out with an air conditioner, we sure could use him here.

Here is the pictures of the relay board (bottom view) (top view) Text on those four small relays is NEC MR 301-9H.

Seems like the links won't work... but you can find the pictures here