starter kill and armed (-) input on relay

I've tried to search, but this issue has been confusing me a bit.

I have a relay connected as in the Normally closed diagram, the diode is in place.

Pin 85 is connected to my armed while negative. Also connected to armed while negative are two Varad Led's (self contained module) and one trigger for a window roll up.

Now my issue: When the ignition turns On, my leds and windows roll up. When my ignition turns off, they turn off.

I cut the pin 85 wire from my start kill relay and found that it was showing (-) when ignition turned on, and N/C when ignition off. Is this normal??? What wiring issue could be off here on the relay?? Will i have to diode isolate my triggers that are connecting to my armed while neg wire (everything works fine if the pin85 start kill wire is not connected to the alarm)

Thanks

Shane.

This is a generic pager lcd - KCJS / compustart copy.

I'm doing my testing without having the starter kill trigger connected to the alarm and it shows continuity between ground and pin 85 when ign turns on.

Normal??

Possibly not enough current on the output wire? 

-Shane

thanks so much! it will definetly help when trying to design my passive fuel cut to work in tandem with my negative while remote start wire..

Much appreciated!

-Shane