98 Civic BOA remote start parking lights

I have a BOA remote start w/ keyless entry system that i am tring to hook up to a 1998 honda civic.  I have every wire connected correctly i think.  Everything works but when i start the car, only with the remote, the parking lights flash after 10 sec of the car starting, and will not stop flashing.  the unlock and lock feature work fine.  even after the car starts- ill put the key in the ON position and the parking lights and all dashboard lights will continue to flash while sounding the (you forgot your headlights on) sound.  could this be because the car still has the factory radio in it which controls the keyless entry and dome light of the stock security feature... If anyone knows what is wrong please let me know.  I also had to intall a relay because the parkinging lights have a + polarity and the BOA system requires a - polarity...BUT that seemed to be working fine when i installed it.

nothing seems wrong here. with most remote starters, the parking lights will flash. Some give you the option to keep them on constant, unfortunately the BOA's do not

Yes, mobile 1 is right, with the BOA system the parking lights will flash untill you have key in on and press the brake

ok thanks.... Is there a way to make it so that that noise doesnt sound.  Its the noise that the car makes when u left your key in the car as your leaving the car or u left your headlights on as you take the key out of the ignition.   it sounds as the parking lights flash... If so how

Same thing happens here, can't find a way to get those lights to stop flashing, but at least Accord's dont make a noise

do you have a BOA also?