viper 5101 remote start to 1997 4runner

I have the viper 5101 wire diagram and the Toyota wire diagram. I am trying to connect all the dots in between. Does anyone have the answers? Thanks

This is what I have so far: primary harness h1- 12-pin conn. of the viper 5101 to 1997 toyota 4runner w/factory vip rs3000 security system h1/1   not used h1/2 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?) h1/3 to -horn trigger grn/rd h1/4 to ? h1/5 to chassis ground h1/6 to ? h1/7 to ? h1/8 to -left front door trigger blk/wht h1/9 to ? -door trigger blk/wht? h1/10 to ? h1/11 to? h1/12 to ? aux harness h2 7-pin conn. h2/1 to ? h2/2 to ? h2/3 to ? h2/4 to ? h2/5 to ? h2/6 to ? h2/7 to ? heavy gauge remote start h3 8-pin conn. h3/1 to + ignition 1 blk/yel h3/2 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?) h3/3 to accessory blu/rd h3/4 to starter (car side) blk h3/5 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?) h3/6 to ignition 2 blk/yel or blk/rd (which one is better?) h3/7 ? h3/8 to +12v wht or wht/rd (which one is better?) remote start input 5-pin conn. 1 to chassis ground 2 to igniter (pass. side inner fender) 3 to +12v brake switch light lead @ pedal 4 to hood pin 5 ? remote start auxiliary output 5-pin conn. 1 to ? 2 to ? 3 to ? 4 to ? 5 to ? door lock harness 3-pin conn. 1 to - ?power lock rd/wht? 2 not used 3 to - ?power unlock rd/yel? All of the ?'s are things that I'm unsure about. How do I get my rear defrost to come on as an option? Do I need anything extra? which light flash polarity setting should I use? Will the control center receive a signal if its mounted in the glove box or should it be on the wind shield? I have the install guide also, for programing. I don't have any q's about that. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks.