true hid conversion for 04 ram

Hello everyone,

I am currently working on a projector retrofit into my factory dodge ram headlights.  The components I am using are:

Acura TL Bi-xenon projectors/solenoids

Hella Gen III ballasts (angled connector)

The retrofit of putting the projectors inside the housing is just about done and I have been looking into the wiring portion but I am not very good at this part.  I purchased a premade 9007 bi-xenon harness with relays to draw power off the battery instead of the stock wiring.  The problem though, is that the system flickers.

I know the dodges have that system that checks for resistance on a circuit and if too little is there it shuts down the headlights causing the flickering.

Any ideas on how I can get around this?  I have heard of people saying there is a relay that has a resistor built into it which helps but does anyone know the part number for this?  I need to look closer at the harness to also make sure a relay socket was used.  If not is there a vendor/classified section here where I can request someone to make me a new harness that will fit my needs?  I need one that will take a 9007 factory connection and power my ballasts from the battery.  Then when hi-beams are turned on, keep the ballast running but apply power to my tl solenoids to hold the shutter open.

If I left out any pertinent information about my vehicle or any of its components please let me know.