08 frontier remote start

i added the dei 561t to my factory rke, i cannot for the life of me find the parking light flash in the dkp and  when i go to remote start the vehicle it starts fine with the valet key in the ignition, however if i take it out of the ignition and hold it to the lock cylinder either front or behind the dash the truck will not start, so i see there is a keysense wire, what does that need to be connected to on the dei? and for the bypass some of the people on the frontier forum just grind down the valet key and tuck it underneth the dash with a wire wrapped around it and then lead it to the lock cylinder and wrap it around that. unless anyone has a better suggestion than by a bypass.

The key sense doesnt get hooked up to the alarm.You need to make or buy a bypass..... I would spend the money and buy one. To test everything until you get a bypass......put the key IN the ignition and then try to remote start. I'd it doesn't start, you have some other issues going on.