relay diagram planning advice needed

yeah, i'm having trouble finding a single switch that does this for me.

here's a link to my build thread http://www.honda-tech.com/showthread.php?t=2261397.  ignore the dates, lol. our economy is effecting me hard too! lol.  the car is a 1988 honda crx (ef7)

thanks for the diode and relay information. 

That circuit is wrong,  sorry I'm baby sitting my 9 and 11 year old grandchildren and I haven't had time to look properly.

Your white black and white battery feeds should be fused somewhere, either at the battery or the engine bay fusebox adjacent to the engine bay rear bulkhead. These  factory fuses should be at least 30 amps each.

Now this:- Ground to first combi switch, first position,  thin black cable to 85 and WHITE/ black from battery to 86 and 30, output to WHITE/ red from 87.

Second position, thin black to 85 on three relays, white batt to 86 and 30 and ouputs (87) to BLACK / YELLOW, blue /white and yellow.

Starter button thin black to ground, output to another relay, 85 again, battery white to 86 and 30, BLACK/ white starter output from 87. This will put much less current on your switches.

Now here's the important part:- Before you start, some of these circuits e.g.   ACC, and blue/white , will power down during the start (AKA cranking)  cycle. Check.  You will need a small 3 or 4 (you will probably only get a 4 pole) relay or 3 small case low currrent (under 5 amps). Output from starter switch to relay(s) 85, white ignition to 86, those thin blacks to the acc and 2 ignitions, NOT BLACK/ yellow  or yellow in to 30 and out to 87. This will dump them during the start cycle. VERY IMPORTANT. Diodes please across every relay, between 85 and 86 diode bands towards 86.

so this circuit would not work if i want the previous switches to shut off when the starter button is pushed down?  i wanted to replicate the oem action with the ignition switch using the two toggle switches and a single push start switch.

so far, what i'm reading from your reply is to reverse my grounds on the relays to 85 and place the diodes on each relay?

all of the wires i'm working with already has an oem location for the fuses.