03 accord pkall issues

I"m putting a 561T and a PKALL in an 03 accord and I can't get the module to program. I go through all the steps, it works fine until you insert the key and turn it to on(where the module is supposed to blink 10 times to show it's been programmed). the light just never comes on. I've triple checked all my wiring, it's all right. I'm using the black key with the keyless funtions built in. I even tried the valet key for the fun of it, no luck.  I"m starting to think it's the module. I've got a new module on order, should be here tomorrow.

Also, another odd occurence, something is causing the parking lights to blink like crazy when you flip the headlight switch to parking lights and I can here a relay clicking. Sounds like an alarm going off? (side note, i have the ground wire disconnected currently, so the owner doesn't accidently try to start the car and it ends up grinding away for hours). I'm confused. I followed the directechs to a T..Heck, it even had pictures. Haha

God, I hate remote start season.

if its not programming, make sure the wire from the pkall that says ignition, goes to ignition at the green transponder plug, and not your regular ignition. Then do what zereodivad said and check the tx, rx (data.synchro wires)

I've got it hooked up exactly like the manual says.

Data(PURPLE / white wire) to RED / blue pin#2

ignition(pink) to BLACK / YELLOW pin#6

orange and brown goes into switch and light green goes into car inline on blue/orange pin#5

The only wires I dont have hooked up that they list are the Ground and 12v but they are n/c on the diagram and i"m running d2d.

Blue wire with a white stripe is going to orange off the RS. I've even tried setting it to ground while i program.

Maybe it's how I'm programming?

Hold button, plug in d2d wire. release button(light should be on at this point), press and release one time to enter programming, select type by pressing button the number that corresponds with vehicle(in this case 1), press and hold button, plug in main harness, plug in 3rd harness on back, put key in swtich to run, light should blink 10 times in order to varify programming(never happens)

I've got to have this done today or I'll prob end up digging ditches...again..Thanks ahead of time guys.

I just double checked the manual online. It doesnt' mention holding the button while pluggin in the main and third harness, only while pluggin in the d2d. i thought I tried that yesterday, but I'll try again. Any other ideas guys?

Sorry for cluttering up the board guys, I promise I'm not totally useless. Haha

alright guys, I got it. I skipped the D2D harness and just hardwired it. Then retryed it WITHOUT holding the button in while putting the harnesses in. TADA!!

Now, the only  issue I'm having is apparently the key fob/lock wont work while the car is running. I can't even press the lock button on the inside of the car. Any ideas?

hondas when they are started, the factory fobs no longer work. i beleive in the 03, you could go to the passenger kick and break the yellow/black wire, and that would disable the factory alarm.

I finally just gave up tryin to use the 4003.. I just unplugged it, plugged in the next model up that comes with the keyfobs and sent him on his way. (I love DEI for that reason alone)..

I despise them for their tech support number. *Insert middle fingers here*