viper 5901 starter kill issues silverado

I have the 5901 with the dei xpress kit bypass system installed on my 2003 2500hd silverado, everything works great except for the starter kill. I tr to start the truck with the starter kill wired in and it clicks, pauses and then cranks over. without the starter kill wires connected it starts just fine. Even adding a bosch relay type open starter kill it tries to crank, pauses and then cranks over and runs. Meantime when it is running by key the alarm relays are clicking still, like its getting a signal from the alarm. I already did a warranty swap on the alarm, but same thing happens. any help wiring would be awesome. (side note, remote start did work before just fine, but starting with the key has issues, also using bull dog security harness to harness for the ignition)

Also this is what is wired.... Truck              Alarm       starter side              violet Key Side   Green 12v+       RED / white, red, RED / black pink 12v   pink ignition 1            pink/white (possibly 2nd ignition in truck?) Not connected            pink/black            Orange

Also this is what is wired.... Truck              Alarm       starter side ---   violet Key Side   ---     Green 12v+       ---     RED / white, red, RED / black pink 12v ---      pink ignition 1 Not connected            pink/white (possibly white 2nd ignition in truck,?)            pink/black            Orange