remote actuator with momentry relay

Hi

Firstly Im new to this and my electronic knowledge is very limited

What im trying to do is make an actuator move up and down using a remote using a momantary action

From what I understand I need and actuator (obviously), an ir remote and a power supply

I have sourced a few parts (see below) just dont know how they will or if they can go together

actuator:   http://annbodesign.com/GENERAL-PURPOSE-ACTUATORS-FOR-AUTOMATED-PROJECTS

ir remote: http://#.co.uk/12V-Remote-control-On-off-2-Channel-momentary-relay-/320627757256?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_3&hash=item4aa6e750c8

power supply, i will proberly just use a radio wire

So what i need to happen is that when i hold one of the buttons the actuator opens and when i hold the other button the actuator closes

As i said im not sure how to or if these products will go together, so if not, please could you lead me to another website where i could get the products from, also not sure if i will need limit switches etc etc

ps im in the uk, so a uk based site would be an advantage

thanks pete

ps the link for the remote above doesnt work for some reason ill try again

http://#.co.uk/12V-Remote-control-On-off-2-Channel-momentary-relay-/320627757256?pt=LH_DefaultDomain_3&hash=item4aa6e750c8

http://#.co.uk/12V-12-Volt-Remote-Control-OFF-2-Chan-Bike-Marine-RV-/250616905226?pt=UK_BOI_Lights_Lighting_ET&hash=item3a59ee7e0a#rpdId

This one is better it also latches

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