cannot find these wires, 98 avalon

Ooops, just noticed a mistake with the wire colors in the relay wiring.  

Here is the relay wiring with the correct wire colors :

Relay Pin 85 to AutoPage H6/14 Yellow Ignition3 wire.

Kreg357,thanks to you and all the guys who responded to my post. I did notice that something was not quite right when I read your reply about the relay wiring,but I could not place my finger on it.Maybe it was because I was not in a hurry to do that feature.

Guys,I finally foung the courage to install the fuses(I was scared),I got the programming on the third try.The brake shut down,hoodpin and over rev are all working,along with the remote start. I am using the small remote,as far as the brain is concerned the big remote (transciever) does not exist. I can set the time and certain features, when I pressed certain buttons, I am getting this message"incorrect tx or out of range".I started the car last night with the small remote, the distance was about two hundred meters.I unplugged and plug in both ends of the antenna wires and samething.Maybe I did not get the programming right with the big tranbmitter.The blue light is saying "Here I am, come and get me", that has to go.

The parking lights on the 98 Avalon, are they groung switched?