OK, I just read the entire thread.
Gents, I am VERY disappointed - there was not as much humor as I expected tho IMO Ween takes the prize with Diode School, 101 Semiconductor Lane (I thought it was Semiconductor Tunnel, Ling).
However the experience and tips made up for that. To see others that know of bad crimpers, soldering, etc etc.
And ronemca - you nailed the freewheeling or spike-protection or snubber diode across the relay coil. That was a quick learn indeed - you seemed to grasp it easily.
FYI - my summary is that the diode is normally reverse biased (does NOT conduct) so it has no effect on the circuit, but when a coil releases (is de-energised) it produces a huge -ve spike so that the normally +ve end (86) is more -ve then the GND or -ve end (85), and that can wreck attached electronics.
It also gives a nice kick if you'd like to put a finger on each of terminals 85 & 86 when you de-energise the coil.
Anyhow, that's when the diode conducts and hence shorts that -ve pulse.
And 12V/24V coils generally generate spikes up to ~200V, and hence 1N4004 (400V) or 1N4007 (1000V) diodes are used.
1N400x diodes handle 1A. The general guidance is that the diode should handle twice the current of the coil, and since most automotive relays like we are using are 250mA or less (hence needing a 500mA diode), the 1N400x series is fine.
So instead of generating a back-EMF (spike) of ~100V to -300V which will kill most semiconductors, it is snubbed to a mere ~0.7V which is safe. And as Ween wrote, will also reduce noise. (Good one Ween - I rarely think of that even though I had dash lights that would flash on when I turned off my highbeams.)
Incidentally, I hate relays with inbuilt diodes (variou$ reason$) and instead prefer to incorporate 1N4004/7s in the harness or socket.
And tho I usually don't bother because mine are mechanically switched, I may start including diodes as standard for the sake of noise suppression.
As to relays with inbuilt snubber
resistors, IMO why bother - go it properly.
And that's a good segway... You all like to do things properly. And over design. (I won't say over-engineer...) IE - ensure it works, remains reliable, and is reasonable future proof.
YAY!
But like I said - impressive stuff. I thought long threads meant trouble. This is an (IMO rare) exception. Ok, some confusion about coil diodes, but so what? And I was worried about a metal case housing wireless receivers...
I like Ween's feeder cable splitting (1-8ga = 2-11ga = 4-14ga) as well as other great bits.
And burntkat has so many comments that hit home. (Obviously you must have flamed any cat deliberately - it certainly would not be accidental!)
And as to Sir OP - a quick learner with an interesting expression of humor.
Anyhow, I'll get back to burning some servos I got from the wreckers...
Maybe after some wine. (It was a warm sunny day until the smell of bushfires rode in ahead of real gusty chilly winds and black storm clouds that were quire scary. If only I had a drink for the road... (no! never.).)