Well, I'm slightly confused. A few things to re-state.
There are two connectors at the ignition switch that are used in the install. One is the Main Ignition connector. The other is the
Transponder connector. This is shown in the photo on Page 1. While some of the wires in these connectors have the same name
and color, for the purposes of the install, you must follow the DLPK install guide very closely.
On the Main Ignition connector the Pink Ignition wire and the Brown Accessory wire are used. They will have connections from
the Avital 4113 thick wires. The DLPK Yellow wire will connect to the White V Data wire on this same plug.
On the Transponder connector, no 4113 direct connections are made. Only the wires shown in the DLPK install guide are connected
to this plug. Additionally the cut Brown ( or possibly Yellow ) wire and it's connections are important. the DLPK WHITE/ Black must go
to the connector side on this cut wire and the DLPK Pink wire must go to the car side of this cut wire.
As mentioned earlier :
Seems that both issues, bypass module programming and the needed key start prior to the one R/S, are related. Please review and / or post your DLPK CN1 wiring. Personally, I would cut the far end of the CN1 harness and hard wire the +12V and Chassis ground wires to the 4113 thick Red ( H2/4 or H2/6 and H1/8 Black wires ). Rememberthat while the DLPK guide states the the +12V is Blue and the Chassis Ground is Black, these colors can vary, so goby the actual pin location.
The DLPK is actually a Fortin CAN-SL2 module OEM'd to Xpresskit. Here is a link to the CAN-SL2 install guide :
http://fortin.ca/download/1179/can-sl2_chevrolet_impala_(2006-2009).rev-a.pdfWhile there are wire color differences, the pin locations remain the same. So, go by the pin location ( not the wire color ) for the
CN1 wires.
I'm not sure exactly where the problem is but the wiring chart given on Page 3 should be accurate and the DLPK ( CAN-SL2 )
install guide should be followed exactly.
Soldering is fun!