This is the write up I followed to install the viper and db3 of course I rechecked with my wiring diagrams and it's the same the relay I was asking about was the 8617 at the bottom of this write up. Btw thanks kreg 357 you been a great help.
2002 Silverado with Viper 5806 and DB-ALL2 flashed with 4.02 GM5 Ver 3.12.106a firmware.
Assumptions : Gasoline engine, factory door locks, going with D2D between Viper & DB-ALL2.
There is no need for the 451M door lock module, the DB-ALL2 will handle the locks and alarm via it's connection to the J1850
Data wire at the OBD2 connector.
Pin Color Description Destination
MH 1 Red (+)12VDC Constant Input Red (+) @ ignition harness
MH 2 Black (-) Chassis Ground Chassis Ground
MH 3 Brown (+) Siren Output Viper siren
MH 4 WHITE/ Brown Parking light isolation Not Used
MH 5 White Parking light output BCM Gray Connector, Brown wire, pin 6 (+) * Set jumper to (+)
MH 6 Orange (-)500mA Ground when armed Not used
DL 1 Blue (-)500mA Unlock output Not used - handled via D2D
DL 2 EMPTY
DL 3 Green (-)500mA Lock output Not used - handled via D2D
RS 1 NC
RS 2 RED / Black (+) Fused 12V acc/start input RED / White (+) @ ignition harness
RS 3 Pink/Black (+) Flex relay input 87a key side Not used
RS 4 Pink/White (+) Ignition 2/flex relay output White (+) @ ignition harness
RS 5 Red (+) Fused 12V Ignition 1 Input Red (+) @ ignition harness
RS 6 Green (+) Starter Input (key side) Yellow (+) @ ignition harness cut wire
RS 7 Violet (+)Start output (car side) Yellow (+) @ ignition harness cut wire
RS 8 Orange (+) Accessory output Orange (+) @ ignition harness
RS 9 RED / White (+) Fused 12V Ignition 2 RED / White (+) @ ignition harness
RS 10 Pink (+) Ignition 1 Input/output Pink (+) @ ignition harness
AST 1 Pink/White (-) 200mA Ignition 2/flex Output not used
AST 2 Blue/White (-) 200mA 2nd Status/rear defog output not used
AST 3 RED / White (-) 200mA trunk release output not used
AST 4 BLACK / YELLOW (-) 200mA dome light output not used
AST 5 Dark Blue (-) 200mA status output Not used - handled via D2D
AST 6 WHITE/ Black (-) 200mA AUX 3 output not used
AST 7 WHITE/ Violet (-) 200mA AUX 1 output not used
AST 8 ORANGE / Black (-) 200mA AUX 4 output not used
AST 9 Gray (-) Hood pin input (NC or NO) to kit supplied hood pin
AST 10 Blue (-) trunk pin/instant trigger input (NC or NO) not used
AST 11 WHITE/ Blue Activation Input not used
AST 12 Violet/White Tachometer input Not used - handled via D2D
AST 13 BLACK/ White (-) neutral safety/parking brake input Not used - handled via D2D ( E-Brake ? )
AST 14 GREEN/ Black (-) 200mA Factory alarm disarm output Not used - handled via D2D
AST 15 Green (-) Door input Not used - handled via D2D
AST 16 BROWN / Black (-) 200mA horn honk output optional ( already have Viper siren )
AST 17 Pink (-) 200mA Ignition 1 output not used
AST 18 Violet (+) Door input not used
AST 19 Violet/Black (-) 200mA AUX 2 output not used
AST 20 Brown (+) Brake shutdown input White (+) @ brake pedal switch
AST 21 Violet / YELLOW (-) 200mA starter output not used
AST 22 Gray/Black (-) Diesel wait to start input not used
AST 23 Orange (-) 200mA accessory output to extra relay Pin 85 ( for Brown ACC2 wire )
AST 24 GREEN / WHITE (-) 200mA factory alarm arm output Not used - handled via D2D
DB-ALL2
D2D harness to Viper
Blue 14 Pin Plug
Pin 2 Violet / YELLOW to OBD2 Pin 2 Violet
Red 12 Pin Plug
Pin 1 BLACK/ White to Tan (-) @ BCM, purple plug, pin B4
Pins 8 & 9 to Yellow Passlock2 wire at steering column harness
Black 10 Pin Plug
Pin 8 Violet to Viper RS Pin 7 thick Violet (+) Start output
Pin 9 Pink to Viper RS Pin 10 thick Pink (+) Ignition 1 Input/output
Extra relay ( 8617 ) for ACC2 :
Pin 85 to Viper AST Pin 23 Orange (-) 200mA accessory output
Pin 86 and 87 to Red (+) @ ignition harness through 25 amp fuse
Pin 30 to Brown ACC2 @ ignition harness
Pin 87a not used
Mr.562