1999 acura 3.2 tl

hey whats up guys i finished my install on this car but for some reason when i autostart the car it starts fine no problem but when i try to start the car like i would normally do wiht the key in  the ignition it wouldnt not crank,it almost as if the starter kill is in motion but if i try the ribbon from the alarm brain going to the relay pack it will start fine no problem

oh this alarm is the viper791 alarm /rs

anyone with some info on this please help me out

for some reason the purple wire on the relay pack is not gettin

hey sorry its me again but anyways i was wondering if the dei viper 791 comes with a starter kill built into that new little relay pack they got cause i am not sure if it does because today i fixed the problem i had with the car not starting with the key i hooked up the green wire to the key side and the purple wire to the starter side and then it worked fine but i tried out the starter kill and not workin so i am not sure if it has one or not

also there is another wire from the alarm brain  an orange wire which says its an armed output for optional starter kill relay would that get connect to any acc wire in that vehicle

cause when i hook that up to an acc wire in the vehicle the car wont start wiht the key

well I have the the

purple>starter

green>keyside = BLACK/ white from car harness

red >12v = white

pink > ign = BLACK / YELLOW

pink/white>2nd ign = WHITE/ black

RED / white>12v = white

orange> acc = yellow

now i know all those wire and connection is correct because when i autostart the car everything works fine and no grinding or anything like that runs fine

now there is one more orange wire which is from the H1 harness orange armed output i dont know where that wire goes too

i had it connected to the acc wire in the car but the car wouldnt start with the key and plus its like if the starter kill relay is workin there

now when i unhook that wire the car starts fine with the key and also the starter kill relay dont work

i dont know whats goin on there i checked all of my connections several times even undid the alarm and install it again and same outcome only thing i can think of is a bad relay pack is that possible please i need help asap have to get this car done for saturday morning at 11am

anyone has any suggestion

there is only seven wires to hook up from the relay pack to the car harness

and this is the new type of relay pack from dei

its a small box and seven wires comming out of it

above i list all the wires and what i did

just dont know where i went worng