OK, I'll give in... yep, everything everybody has said above is correct. I will continue to stand by my previous suggestion, and never blow a speaker. If you are overpowering you speakers (meaning, running a higher powered amplifier than the speaker is rated for) you ARE going to blow your speakers if you insist on setting the gains to "the RMS output voltage of the amplifer". If you do this, number one you will already be running beyond the speakers rating, but then, while the speaker is distorting due to overpowering, you are never going to hear the additional distortion of the amplifer clipping, if it gets that far... and we all know what this does to a speaker. The clipping, in addition to overpowering your speaker to start with, will leave you with the question of WHEN, not IF...
Also, even IF you buy an amplifer with the power exactly matched to the driver you will be connecting to it, and you are going to be amplifying your, say Diamond Components with one amp, AND your Eclipse 87000 series subwoofer with another amp, the efficiencies of these speakers will NOT be matched, the components will be louder... so as you turn up your volume, the gain curves will not be linear, the subwoofer amp will have to be a faster gain slope to reach RMS output at the same time the components do. Now, the sub amp will be putting out more power, even though it *IS* RMS power, the components are still likely to be louder, necessitating the user to "turn up the bass", or whatever - driving the sub amp into clipping, again, increasing the chance of early woofer failure. If you think about all of the points raised above, I think you will see I am right, and in a multi-amped system, the DMM method is TRULY a waste of time, and NOT the correct way to do it. Personally, I use an oscilloscope to discover the clipping point of the headunit, set the gain of the amplifier for the LEAST efficient speaker in the system, running the amp to JUST where the driver starts to complain at the resonant frequency of that driver, then I use an RTA to set the gains on the remaining drivers in the system. I also am a fan of overpowering a system, often running an amplifier rated for at LEAST twice the rated RMS power of the driver. Your RMS output voltage will change once you drop a speaker on the terminals. I do it this way, because a speaker is a highly reactive device, and you use the resonant frequency of the driver under test because this is where maximum mechanical motion occurs, with minimum power input. (I also tri-amp my existing system, AND soon will be quad-amping it... The DMM method would ABSOLUTELY GUARANTEE a blown driver...) But you guys go ahead and do it the way you want... I don't know what I'm talking about... While the DMM method is probably pretty safe, I still feel the ear is a far more sensitive measuring device, and will also give you FAR better warning as to when the amplifier or the speaker is driven to far.
It all reminds me of something that Molière once said to Guy de Maupassant at a café in Vienna: "That's nice. You should write it down."