95 Honda Civic, starter, relay

Hello! I used this diagram to hook up my radio antenna lead to make sure the car will not start without the radio face installed. I worked great for about a month. I also have a Viper 600esp installed also. Then the car when I would try to start it would "click" like the starter was goin bad. So I took it to Honda and had them check it, and 65 dollars and 15 minutes later, I got a report that I needed a new starter. So I bought one from Autozone and installed it. It worked great for about 3 weeks. Then it started to do the same thing again. So I pulled the starter today and had it tested, it tested out good. So now I am wondering if its the relay set up. Can some one please help me get the car to work properly. Oh its a 95 Honda Civic EX Coupe if it matters.  Thanks Edwin