commando 4040 ground out while rs

Would any body help me out with this commando 4040 which i purchase from asianwolf. It doesn't have a ground out during remote start wires. How can I make that to happen in order to tap the 555H or 556u bypass transponder for honda accord 2001. Here is the wiring diagram for commando 4040.

1O PIN HARNESS

white         parking lights

red            12V+ power

brown        Alarm siren outputs

orange     (-) Armed output

gray          Spark Plug Sense

Green       (-)Door Trigger

Blue          (+) Hood trigger

Violet         (+) Door trigger

Yellow       Brake Light Switch

6 PIN HEAVY GAUGE HARNESS

Violet      Starter

Orange  Accessory

Yellow  Ignition 1

Brown  Ignition 2

red     12V+

red    12V+

10 harness missing a black wire for ground. Anybody help out...............

Is this the relay diagram i should use to convert positive to negative at yellow wire at ignition 1

So 86 go to ignition 1 wire (yellow) and 30 and 85 go to ground, 87 gonna be my ground output during remote start which needed to be hooked up to the by pass correct.