Acura Remote Start

I installed a STARTNR2 add on remote starter to my factory keyless entry on my 2002 Acura RSX.  I have run into two problems:

1. The keyless entry is deactivated by the ignition input when the car is started, so I cant unlock my doors after remote starting.  I have heard a relay can be used to interrupt this ignition input.  Does anyone know how this would be done?  I dont know where the keyless entry module is or whether the input signal is negative or positive.

2.  I am running the ACC 2 negative output from the starter to trigger the bypass module and the clutch switch, but for some reason the output is dropping from 12 volts to 0 when the starter is triggered.  I was told that this is because I have two places running off of the same wire.  How do I keep the clutch from dropping out, My car wont start without the clutch switch getting the 12 negative volts.

Any help would be greatly appreciated!