V562T CRV02 Doors work-Tailgate doesn't?

Honda 2002 CRV Finally finished installing a Valet 562T all fine. Problem is now the Tail gate will not lock or unlock. Before nothing locked and found the Major hurdle was the lock/unlock needed a boost to work via a DEI 451 Door Lock relay that provides a high current (-)ground. THAT did the trick! I can pop the glass with the AUX. If I use the OEM they all work fine. I would like the Valet to work all doors including tailgate as before. ???? phil

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OK. Assume your saying r/w H1/7 a channel 2 (-) 200ma output? I was using this for the glass hatch on AUX with a relay. Hope I don't nee another high output 451. But!!! Is that going to keep the Tailgate on the same lk/unlk as all the doors are? Don't want to use AUX for anything but the tail glass hatch so if it works the door,what do I do about the glass? At this point with relay city here, I'm actually thinking of putting in an add on remote start only. Live with the limited distance but keep the OEM keyless properties. tnx phil