You know, it would be nice if we could just look at a couple of parameters in a sub's spec sheet and tell how it will perform, but that's just about impossible without putting it in a box modeling program like WinISD and looking at it. One of the best things to do is exactly what you are doing: talking with friends who have used some different setups and personally listening to the results. Nothing tells more than true-life results.
On the subject, though, of Fs and how it relates to how deep the bass response can go: you can't always tell by the Fs of the driver just by looking at the number. I picked another sub at random just to see what it looks like modeled in the program. The Memphis M-class MC124, a single 4 ohm sub similar to what you have.
http://www.memphiscaraudio.com/products/details.asp?cat=&id=50&p=2 and http://memphiscaraudio.com/LiveImages/114/7/DocumentURL.pdf for the parameters.
You see that this sub has a low Fs of 28 Hz...but look at the response in the link here:
memphismc124-mtx7512.jpg Open up the response I gave you in the last post to compare.
All three of these use the same 5 cu ft box for four subs. The colored lines you're looking at are this: yellow is the Memphis in sealed. You see that even though it has a much lower Fs, it still gives a response very similar to what you now have with those MTX 7500s. F3 is at about 45 Hz. The SQ is better, though, because there is no 'hump' in the response.
The green line is the same box size but vented, and using the Memphis sub. There is more SPL and low end extension because of the vented box that is tuned to 30 Hz. The difference that you see in this graph between the yellow and green lines doesn't look like very much, but it is a big difference in output if you want deep bass in the popular music we listen to now. The F3 hits lower at 39 - 40 Hz and makes a huge improvement in those deep bass hits. (This is my way of answering your question above about comparing this sub to your 9500's).
The third line, the blue one, is your MTX 7500 in the same 1.25 per sub box but vented. It is tuned to 40 Hz. You see that this extends the low bass output...the F3 is at 32 Hz. But there's a big price to pay for this low end extension. Look at the huge peak in response that happens when you port this particular sub: you get a peaked response of over +5 db. What that means is that even though this sub/box combination will perform to lower bass, the benefit is outweighed by the increase in db's at the higher sub freqs. You would have to adjust volume because of that peaked response, which would further make that F3 point seem more like a F8 point...8 decibels lower than the majority of sound that you're getting.
Getting around this overly-peaked response is just about impossible in a vehicle because of the huge box it would take.
That all has to do with the whole combination of driver parameters and how they will interact with each other. The biggest differences between these two subs is the total Q which is given as Qts. The MTX's very high .84 is a sign that getting any kind of smooth response will be impossible, whereas the Memhis' .46 is a middle-of-the-road number that gives you a clue that you can work with this in either sealed or vented applications. It doesn't boil down to something that simple...like I said it would be great if we could just look at a couple of numbers and know what to expect...but if I saw these MTX parameters and it's response I would think "SPL, how loud can we make this thing get".
Build the box so that it performs well in the worst case scenario and, in return, it will reward you at all times.