Why should we care?.. I'll start by addressing your closing comment..
"if for some reason you use it irresponsibly and get in trouble, that will be your fault and you will be responsible for it"
Unfortunately, that doesn't seem to be how it works; at least in the US where I live. We seem to live in a society of 'it's not my fault'. We recently had someone convicted of murder in the first here.. 20y/o shot and killed a retired schoolteacher. When it came time to decide if he would live or die, we got to hear about how he had a bad childhood, how he wasn't trying to kill her, just shoot the mirror on her car and he was startled when she honked the horn... over and over, just the same verse of 'it's not his fault'.
He's serving life without possibility of parole.. she's still dead.
What does this have to do with wiring so all the lights stay on?.. nothing much other then I'd be surprised if someone got busted for something they did and they _didn't_ try to place the blame elsewhere. It does happen.. I saw it recently in the news; but it's not common.
To address the lighting issues.. first off, it _does_ have to be mentioned that what the OP is asking is illegal, at least in some areas. I don't see a problem with asking the OP if they've checked with local law enforcement to see if it is or not.
Secondly, it's not a very interesting question.. as we don't get paid for doing this (at least not directly.. I'm at work 'taking a break') it's not something that someone might be willing to spend the time to research. As noted earlier in the thread, cars are getting complicated and this question would require someone to look up a wiring diagram to see how things are set up.. now, I have done that in the past (looked up something for someone) but it was mainly because they wized me off with their crying.. which ties in with my next point..
People want the easy answers.. they don't want to hear 'calculate the value of the resistor using Vf and If and Ohms Law'.. they want to hear 'use a 270k Ohm resistor'. How many requests do we get here for LED resistor values and 'How do I get 5v from12v?'.. I don't know that this request is going to be an easy answer...
And lastly.. Professionalism. You yourself alluded to this when you talked about not giving answers if you knew that the information given would be used for illegal purposes. It makes all of us here look bad when someone goes thumping through a residential neighborhood at 3am.. when someone uses the 'spit and twist' method of connecting wires together... it makes all of us look bad. When someone uses a R/S for an auto trans in a manual trans car, and things go horribly wrong, it makes all of us look bad.
My reasons for not responding to this thread are; I don't know the information required to help, I don't know how much running all the lights will help see at night (I think the OP would be better served with getting some **good** aftermarket lighting) and I have my concerns with running both high and low at the same time.. the heat generated might do bad things to the reflector housing.
Now.. if the OP would still like some help with simulating an ignition system for a senior project, I'd be glad to help.. and I've got some good ideas if they are interested in playing with ICs.
As always.. no offense to anyone.. hope all had a good Thanksgiving (if that's something you celebrate)
Jim