Remote Starter 98 Saturn SC2

I'm trying to install a BulldogSecurity remote starter in a 1998 Saturn SC2.  All if fine except connecting to the Factory Disarm.  There is supposed to be a lighter gauge pink wire, probably in the driver's kick panel. 

I'm having problems finding the correct wire.  There are many bundles of wire in that general area, almost all have a lighter weight pink wire, but none of them test out right.  There is supposed to be a yellow w/ black ground wire for the factory disarm system.  I found one, and in the same bundle there is a lighter gauge pink wire so i hooked they remore starter to that---but the car alarm still goes off and the car doesn't crank.  Any guidance?  I called BulldogSecurity but they said they had to research it, and never called back.

Thanks for any help.