1999 Dodge durango alarm/remote start

Hey guys I am stiitng here reading these posts and I got my self all confused. Here is my situation! I am installing a remote car starter and alarm. I got it all in. except  i don't know how to wire the door lock no do i know what a 451 m is. Is the a single pole double throw relay. Also After the car starts it turns off in like 5 secs.

What i need.

How do i wire the factory disarm.

Where do i find an engine armed running input?

How do i wire the doorlocks and what do i need to do it, perferably stuff i can buy at radio shack!

and i think thats it.

Thanks and Happy Holidays

TJ

Look on this site for wiring diagram for that car, should have all info you need. That vehicle has a transponder system thats why your vehicle is shutting off. The disarm wire for factory alarm is i believe lt green in drivers kick. Like I said this site should have wiring diagram for that car everything will be there. Any other questions feel free to email me or post here on forum.

A regular 3v diode from radio shack, ask those guys there they should be able to help you out. How are you making out otherwise? Did you find the wiring info you needed?

yeah i think i got everything, i got the relays at radio shack for the doors, and i think i know where all the wires are. what was that transponder system you were talking about! I was thinking the reason it shuts down is because i don't have that engine input wire thingy hooked up. we'll see i am gonna try to finish it up later tonight after work.

Thanks For all your help!