window module roll up only

hey there can anyone help me out .

i have hook up a window module to my alarm  (crime stopper).

But i cant get the module to roll up my windows using the alarm. 

i know you need to apply ground to the orange wire form the module to get the windows to roll up.

does any one know how to wire a relay using the starter kill from the alarm (aka orange wire) and still use starter kill too.?

thanks

johnny