caxk04 on 2007 ford edge

It will be a small 4 pin connector at the ignition cylinder. I don't have the colors, because i've never payed attention to them, but this is the order of how they go. The first thing i do is test for the one wire wire in that plug that tests as ignition. That is pin 4, pin 3 is ground, pin 2 is tx data, pin 1 is rx data. So on the plug its...4321 in that order.

OK, i have had the bypass updated with firmware PKF3 1.0 which supports the Edge PATS 3 Securilock. 

Now when I plug the bypass in the LED light on the module stays lit and will not go out, after reading the instructions for the PKF3 version, its says the LED light will stay on until the unit has been programmed.  Well for some reason the unit is not programming.  I have tried reversing the TX/RX connection, no luck.

Key 1 turned on until security light goes off, remove key, insert 2nd key to ON until security light goes off, remove key, and attempt to remote start to finish programming. 

All steps completed less than 5 seconds apart, the remote starter does nothing, and the bypass LED does not go out, like its not taking the program.

Any thoughts?

I have the bypass connected to the Active output of the RS unit like it should be, 12v cons., 12v ign, ground, TX, RX

Am I missing something stupid?

Thanks