giordan car alarm remote start g686 s

What vehicle, might you have a factory transponder that hasn't been by-passed?

i have a 2003 mitsubishi lancer vrx ch

Try it with the key in the ignition, if it starts you haven't by-passed the transponder.

nah i tried that and its still doesn't wana turn on with the remote, well my friend said that we done it right but it says in the manual hook a brown wire which it didn't have a brown wire, it had the white wire....... cause when i try to turn it on it clicks but it doesnt turn on it goes back to off.....

Stop panicking and tell me is this brown or white wire from the alarm or from the car and what's it's function?  If it's the wrong colour have you tested it to see if it's the right function?  What actually happens when you try it, do the ign lights come on?  Test all it's functions, I've no idea what a giordan alarm is, never heard of them.  Any technical back-up in Strine or NZ because if there isn't you're shafted.  I'm still betting on a missing ign wire, transponder or tach.

well in the diagram it suppose to be white from the alarm to the relay and then brown from relay from to the cylinder on..... but instead it's all white instead of white and brown...... and yes the light ingnition come on and off when i try to start with the remote so we don't know if that is right.

What's the relay a starter kill?

yep

Don't use it,  check the tach, ie have you programmed it correctly?  If it cranks and you get the ignition lights on you've basicly done every thing, have you wired up ALL the outputs from the ignition switch? I'm still about not sure about it not starting even when the key is in the ignition, I have a 2000 Galant which has a transponder, I've done loads of Evos also with transponders, I was sure that a 2003 especially if New Zealand uses Aussie rules would have had a transponder immobiliser.