07 odyssey, bulldog deluxe 500

Hello, I have an 07 Honda Odyssey that I've almost got buttoned up with this Bulldog.   I need to get the Factory alarm disarm wire, and I read a couple posts on here that most installers find it in the door.  On this bulldog model, the factory alarm disarm wire is also the status output for the remote start.  You can program what you want.  I need this wire on the bulldog to for both functions.  There are various other outputs on this bulldog, like 2nd starter, 3rd ignition, bunch of auxs.  What is the best method for tying into FAD and Status output to bypass.  Thanks .