Autopage Starter kill for 95 integra

I am installing an autopage 700lcd on my car.  The starter kill is not working.  I can start the car whether the alarm is disabled on enabled.   I the setup the gave in the install book for the relay is as follows.

87- No connection

86- Black and white wire from alarm

30- Cut wire from ignition

87a- Cut wire to ignition

85- On position from starter.

I don't know if I would need a normally open or closed relay setup.  Mabey that is it. 

If anyone knowy why this doesn't work correctly please let me know.

Finally if any knows where to connect the horn that would be great.  I tried disconnecting different relays to to find the horn (pressing the horn after disconnection to see if it would sound.) but I couldn't find it.

Thanks

Thanks that was it.