remote latching relay kit

need help asap basically i bought this kit to fit to a lotus elise to give remote operation of a dvr system i have installed i can't for the life of me figure out how to wire the 2 relays to get it to latch here is a link to the kit with the diagram for the 2 relays http://www.quasaruk.co.uk/acatalog/DSQS-1_Remote_Systems.pdf any help would be greatly appreciated as i have got the car in the workshop now thanks in advance ken

Perform the remote transmitter "learn" routine.

Select the Latching Output Option by placing the shorting link cap on Pins 2 - 3.  In the 1 - 2 position

it will only provide the "momentary" signal while the remote button is depressed, 26 seconds max.

Wire the DVR control wire thru Relay Connection  COM and NO. 

First transmitter press will turn ON, next press will turn off.

Soldering is fun!

do i not need to use both relays then so one button to turn it on and one to turn it off i've done the learn remote and have the jumper in position but still no joy

Don't think so.  The instructions are somewhat vague. 

You have the QS2 model?   Two button transmitter and two relay outputs?

You might try using a Digital Multi Meter to determine which remote button controls which relay. 

Set meter to resistance and connect to either relay, COM and NO pins.  At rest you should show open circuit, pressing the correct button should go to closed ( ~0 ohms ).

Soldering is fun!