python 1401 viper 5101 trouble

I am installing the python 1401 with PKALL bypass modular on a 2002 ford escape and I have a couple of question that Im needing help with Door Lock, 3 Pin Connector The door lock/unlock on the escape is a single wire (pink/white) that operates both the lock/unlock. I have connected both the blue (unlock) and the green (lock with 1k resestor) to the single (pink/white) wire as the direction said. The unlock works but not the lock. What did I do wrong? Remote Start, (H3) 8 Pin Connector My question is about the gage of the wire on the Escape. I am not finding any wires that are the same gage (on the escape 14/16 gage) for H3/4, 5, 8. Am I able to tie into such small wires? Am correct that the "flex relay" lines I don't need to hook up? Thanks for input and help. This one is killing me

you need two relays for lock and unlock to work

12 VOLT CONSTANT	Connect to BATTERY ONLY	@ IGNITION SWITCH HARNESS
STARTER	TAN/LIGHT BLUE (+)	@ IGNITION SWITCH HARNESS
STARTER 2	N/A
IGNITION 1	LIGHT GREEN/ PURPLE (+)	@ IGNITION SWITCH HARNESS
IGNITION 2	N/A
IGNITION 3	N/A
ACCESSORY /HEATER BLOWER 1	BLACK/ LIGHT GREEN (+)	@ IGNITION SWITCH HARNESS

Use this wires for remote starter

Thanks for the information about the relays. I found the link concerning how to install them on this site as well. Also thanks for the wires codes and locations .

I still trying to make sure that I can concect the larger gage start wire from the remote starter to an small gage wire (Tan/Light Blue) under the dash in the ignition switch harness. OR am I just not finding the correct wire to correct wire (Tan/Light Blue) under the dash.

Thanks!