Avital 4105l remote works, door switch blows fuse

Hello, great forum here has a been a great help so far but im stumped. I recently installed an avital 4105l on a 97 dakota. The remote start works great but initially hooked up the door lock wires directly to the truck harness wires. That did not work. So i purchased a 451m double relay deal. i hooked it up and had to hook the blue wire to green and green to blue for it to work properly. Because if i hooked bl-bl, gr-gr then unlock would lock and vise versa. The remote worked fine and the remote start still worked so all was good. but then i pushed the lock/unlock button on the door panel and it blew the fuse. One push every time. I moved wires, checked grounds, unhooked things and it still blew everytime. i used 8 fuses checking different things. So finally i unhooked the lock/unlock wires on the 451m to the car and while the remote doesnt work the door switch does. here are the wires i used. I know there are more but i only hooked these up. I tapped both lock/unlock wires at the plug beside the big 74 pin harness. Thanks for any help. Constant 12V+     Pink/Black or Red      Ignition Switch Harness Starter     Blue/Yellow      Ignition Switch Harness Ignition     Dark Blue      Ignition Switch Harness Ignition 2     Black/Orange      Ignition Switch Harness (Blower) Accessory     Black/White      Ignition Switch Harness Brake Switch     White/Tan      Brake Switch       Parking Lights     Black/Yellow      Behind Fuse Panel 74 Pin Connector below Fuse Panel Door Lock     Light Green/Black(+) or Orange/Purple      14 Pin Connector right of parking brake Door Unlock     Pink/Purple (+)      Positive Trigger

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