99 silverado keyless entry relay

I just got a bulldog keyless entry M/N-Ke100 now my truck all ready had actuators but no keyless entry or alarm, so   i ran wires to my keyless entry i got 3 relays 2 for the locks and 1 for my headlights to flash when i hit the unlock/lock button and it works perfect so then i tried hooking up the lock relays i tried 3 wire positive/negitive and actuator / Reverse Polarity and none of them work i know the relays work cause i hooked them up to the headlight flash and it works.the actuators only have 2 wires if u get a 9volt battery it will lock/unlock when u switch the wires to + & -.So my question is should i get a new alarm with a keyless entry or new actuators.unless anybody else can figure out what the problem is.Thanks ryan

No, you should be able to use what you have to make everything work. Wire your relays like the top part of the diagram. http://64.85.6.129/extrainfo/diagrams/14301_STORM_ACTUATOR%20DIAGRAM%20JBS%20UNITS.pdf Or use this diagram from this site in the relay section. https://www.the12volt.com/doorlocks/page3.asp#arpSteve G