How to wire clutch bypass for dodge neon

Ok this is the last thing left on the compusar 2W900FM-AS (manual). I desperately want this done because it has taken 3 of my days so far.

The clutch bypass wire on the neon is a yellow/red I believe. From the Alarm I will be using CN2-3 which is a green wire (-) ignition. I was told from a dealer this green wire needs to be used because CN2-2 is being used. ANy help would be appreciated. There is an internal relay.

just use the (-) starter wire from the second harness, this is what I used

and wire in a relay