relay problem with 2 starter wires

I've connected my Lynx 200R to my car but my car has 2 starter wires, one wire is for the starter and the other helps the car start in cold weather. Now the problem arises when i connect a starter kill relay. Because i have to connect both of the starter wire from my car to the purple starter output wire of the lynx so that i can remote start the car when it's cold, but in doing that - the starter relay doesn't work. How can i overcome this problem? thank you.

Wire a separate relay to control the start assist circuit. Certified Security Specialist

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