97 accord ex 2 stage door unlock

No problem.  Don't worry about it.

I got the door locks working! I was worried about cutting another wire just to check it, so I spent some time figuring out how to take just one wire out of those connectors. Once I figured this out, I pulled out the Yellow/Red wire going to the door actuator (the connector with the 5 wires) and Bingo! The driver's door actuator did not work when all the others did. I used this wire (going to the actuator) and soldered everything up to the relay.  Thank you for your help in getting this figured out. This has been a great learning experience and makes me appreciate what you do, even more.  Now on to wire the trunk release.

Here's some pics:

Yellow/Red wire soldered to extension that goes to relay pin 30.

Relay location.

Driver's door with finished connections.

Sorry the pics are not that great and the 50K file size forum limit doesn't help. But I hope you get the general idea. Here the final relay connections.

86 = +12V (White wire at module)

87 = +12V (White wire at module)

85 = alarm (-) trigger (Blue wire from alarm)

87A = Yellow/Red (cut at door connector that leads AWAY from the actuator)

30 =  Yellow/Red (cut at door connector that leads TO the actuator)

I have the plastic removed from the door because the next step, after I get the alarm finished, is to do some soundproofing.

Thank you again!

Scott