Haha, it's good to hear that I'm not the only one that was confused with
their relay instructions.
From what I learned, the "Flex relay" is just a relay built inside the Viper Brain/control centre, and its terminals are connected to the wires which are labelled "blah blah... flex relay".
It is called a "flex" relay because it can be programmed by the brain to do one of several different functions (once installed). Really it should be called "the in-built, programmable relay". It really is that simple.
As for getting to understand where the wires go, I would suggest doing a few things before you even start (things that I learned the hard way).
1. When you are cutting into the ignition harness, just attach 1 wire to each of the Constant 12v, accessory, ON (12v when running) and starter. Use these 4 wires to run under the dash to where ever you are locating the Viper brain.
I did not do this, and after re-wiring things several times I ended up with 7-8 wires all different all different colours, going all about the ignition switch, several of which were soldered to the same wire, but at different points... It was a total mess.
I found that the original H3 wires were about 4" too short to reach my switch loom from the glove box... so this meant I had to spend AGES re-soldering other wires to extend the heavy gauge wires just 5" so I could actually connect them to the ignition.
This was an absolute PAIN IN THE BUTT. Just get some long wires, in the same (or heavier) gauge, and tap into the ignition loom, then run these wires over to the brain (as stated above). Then you can use these as the ignition loom wiring points to connect up your alarm, it will save you A LOT of trouble and keep your ignition loom area very tidy.
2. Make sure that when your add these extension wires that they are tapping into the Ignition loom, between the ignition switch and any harness that is under the dash which connects the switch & loom to power. This is important so that you can disconnect the harness and not worry about live ignition wires dangling about when you are running wires/soldering stuff. When its all wired up & double-checked, you just plug the harness back in and bam! they've got power again. If you wire on the other side (car side) of the harness... then the only way to disconnect the constant 12v when working is to disconnect the battery... that will suck.
3. Find all the wires in the harness which will use a common source, then bind them together, and therefore you will only need to solder them once. What I did was solder it all wire-by-wire, and ended up having to solder 4 or 5 wires to the same constant 12v, and then several wires to the same ground etc. etc.
This was very silly on my part - instead you should just find all the wires that need 12v, wrap them in electrical tape together, then all together, solder them to the single 12v extension wire that you ran from the ignition loom. Do the same for all the wires that are going to ground, and then the same for any that need accessory/switched 12v etc.
From memory (I will double-check this and post back...) I wired H3 as such:
1- Pink, Ignition 1 input/output..................... 12v When in Run
2- RED / White, Flex Relay Input (30A fused)........... Constant 12v
3- Orange, Accessory Output.......................... 12v When in Acc.
4- Violet, Starter output (car side).................**See Below
5- Green, Starter input (key side)...................**See Below
6- Red, Ignition 1 Input (30A fused)................. Constant 12v
7- Pink/White, (30) Flex relay output................ Not connected
8- Pink/Black, (87a) Flex relay input................ Not connected
9- RED / Black, Accessory/starter relay input (30A).... Constant 12v
** Basically anything with an inline fuse on the harness, needs to be connected to 12v constant.
For wires 4 & 5:
You need to find the wire that sends 12v when you turn the key to signal the starter motor... For this you will need to have a wiring diagram of your car's power distribution/starter system.
When you find this wire, you will need to cut it in two. The side that is connected to the ignition switch (key) will connect to Green #5, and the side of the wire which leads to the wiring loom harness (car) will connect to Violet #4. This is essentially being wired in series, and not parallel (tapped) like the other wires of H3.
The key-signature immobilizer system on your car will most likely vary to mine if you aren't performing the install in the same make/model/year of car.
For this you need to read the bypass manual and install it from there. However - for me, my install went like so:
When you remove the plastic under panel below the key/ignition switch, you will see 2 very small green wires which were running up to a black loop that wrapped around the barrel of the ignition - this black loop is the antenna for receiving the key's signature, which then runs to the EWS II immobilizer system via the two green wires.
What I had to do was cut ONE of the green wires (either one, it doesn't matter which), then add the bypass unit in series to the green wire.
Which car are you installing your 5901 in?