remote start, car will not crank

I have a 2002 monte carlo 3.8l and i am trying to put a remote starter in it and it is the 1400xp model from python.  My problem is that the vehicle will start and run fine with the remote starter if the key is in the acc. position, on position, or run position, but if the key is off all of the relays click and the interior lights, gauges, and parking lights come on for a quick second then shut right off and the car does not crank.  I have gone over all of my wires and connections and double checked them and i am at a loss, i have spent 14 hours on this, and really really really could use your help.  Thank you.

I used the bypass moduel 1700g, its the real simple one just power, ground, ground when armed, and data bus wire to pin 2 on obdII.  i know that the by pass is working because i have been told the vehicles bypass is done during the crank cycle, and the car will start with the remote start if you just click the key to the accesory position, so it would be relying on the by pass to crank, which it does crank and start with the remote as long as the key is in accesory. 

Also, the green wire is powered.

no i have not checked that but will right now. 

No, i am not getting any security lights. 

I used the bypass moduel 1700g, its the real simple one just power, ground, ground when armed, and data bus wire to pin 2 on obdII.

Remember, it's ground when running, not armed. On DEI products, this will be blue/white on newer products, blue on most older products at the relay pack, and blue/black on some also.  NOT orange. That's the starter kill wire.

Check these, in this order:

1. With test light, check purple starter wire for output at crank, when you hear the relay pack click.