adding a power door lock switch

You won't need the door trigger wires at all.  Does your alarm have built in relays for the lock/unlock circuit?  You should have two wires coming off each actuator, which are high current that send 12v+ to move the motors.  Do these wires hook directly to the alarm lock/unlock outputs?  Or is there a seperate relay pack in between the alarm and the actuators?  This will make a big difference on how to connect.

hmm ok i just checked it out from the actuators it goes to an all black unit, which i believe could be the relay then from there it branches off to the other actuator and the alarm

PROBLEM SOLVED, i got it too work!!!!! what i did was, if you look at the diagram https://img520.imageshack.us/img520/2906/p1050682oo3.jpg I used the, White 3 pin - Door Lock Port - Blue and Green wires and the ground from the alarm, connected it to my switch and vola it works, now its just a matter of running the wires and im good to go! Thanks for the help... i appreciate it!