2003 chevy venture Remote starter

I am putting in a remote starter alarm in 2003 chevy venture.  I cant seem to get the starter to work the remote is the x-plore xr-7025.  The way the directions read is connect the green wire to air condition and the other green to the keyhole on wire.  Is the key hole on wire the ignition 1 wire?.  Gray wire start engin wire. Is this ignition2 wire?  they have a relay which states Gray wire connects to start wire to 87a on the relay. 30 on the relay to start motor to wire they say cut, is this the yellow starter wire?  and the Green wire to key hole to 86 on the relay. and 85 to yellow wire at control box.  I am useing the gmtb-4 bypass I cant seem to figure out where the yellow wire connects.  Ithe way I hooked it up Green wire and wire from 86 on the relay to the pink wire. I cut the yellow start motor wire i connected 87a on the relay to one side of the yellow wire and 30 on the relay to the other side of the yellow wire. I have no wire connected to the white wire ignition 2.  There is no diode on the relay.  I really need some help with this my wife is getting very ugly.  What am i doing wrong?

red to 12v.

black to ground

blue to remote starter

and ring around the ignition switch

I am trying to install the rookwood xr-7025.  It came with a relay that has two greens, white and a yellow.  on the diagram it show the greens to cut the starter wire and tie the relay in to it.  then it shows the yellow wire going to the keyhole wire along with a green wire out of the control box.  What is the keyhole wire is that ignition 1 or 2.  Then it shows a gray wire comeing from the control box hooking up to the start engin wire which ignition is that. This is a 2003 chevy venture. I hook it up like the diagram but when I hit the start engin the acc comes on but no power to the ignition wires.

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